You're Doing Something Right

Hey you. Yes, you!

Do you feel as though you're just completely horrible at life? Do you wake up in the morning and just think "I don't wanna 'adult' today"? Is money, family, relationships, and work getting you down?

If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, then boy, do I have good news for you.

You're doing something right! Yes, your life is not a total disaster and you're going to be okay. So sit back, relax, and get ready to be amazed at just how wonderful you really are!

1. You are so past that phase where your relationships are empty and meaningless. You know what you look for in a friend, and you surround yourself with people who support you. And you support them, too!

2. You don't have millions of dollars, but that hasn't stopped you from having loads of experiences. Every day can be an adventure if you put your mind to it.

3. You know how to reach out to people and form lasting relationships. Good on ya!

4. You've overcome a ton of hardships and you haven't let them stop you from living.

5. You have learned to let go. No, I don't mean just letting go of your hopes and dreams and giving up. I mean you've learned to let go of the people and habits that drag you down. It's good to know who supports you and also who doesn't support you.

6. You can look in the mirror and appreciate the person looking back at you.

7. You can speak positively to yourself and give yourself a break. There are enough critics in the world; give yourself a compliment!

8. You're okay with making mistakes. Again, no need to beat yourself up. Nobody's perfect.

9. You know how to love and be loved. And that there are different kinds of love.

10. You've learned to embrace change. It is totally natural, after all.

11. You've accepted that some things just don't work out. And that's okay. You focus more on solutions rather than failures.

12. You accept your friends and loved ones, and even yourself. Maybe they're not perfect and you're not perfect and that's perfectly fine!

13. You've traded in that microscope for a panoramic view. Instead of criticizing every minute detail, you've learned to focus on the bigger picture.

14. You can genuinely be happy for other people...even when things aren't going so well for you.

15. You accept your feelings and you're okay with not feeling happy 100% of the time. Really, nobody is happy all the time.

16. You've discovered your interests and you pursue them. You're crazy about crossword puzzles? Cool, own that!

17. You can accept a compliment. Give yourself some credit!

18. You don't get bogged down by the past or the future. Wherever you are right now, you're fully there.

19. You set goals and achieve them. Note: a goal doesn't have to be massive. Maybe you applied to a job today or you called an old friend. Kudos!

20. You are an active listener and you actually care about other people's problems. You don't just "nod and smile." Instead, you try to help others out.

21. You make sure to do something you love each and every day. Be it crossword puzzles, a bike ride, or a favorite video game.

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